Creating Rest, Not Just Order

February is quiet in a way that January isn’t. The rush of “new year, new everything” has faded, but winter is still very much here. We’re tired. We’re inside more. And if there’s one space that feels the weight of that, it’s the bedroom.

This month’s reset focuses on bedrooms—not to make them picture-perfect, but to make them restful. A bedroom doesn’t need elaborate systems or matching bins. It needs fewer decisions, fewer visual distractions, and less emotional baggage hiding in drawers and closets.

Why Bedrooms in February

Your bedroom is where your body is supposed to recover. When it’s crowded with clothes you don’t wear, piles you avoid, or items tied to past seasons of life, rest becomes harder than it needs to be.

February is the right time to:

• Reclaim calm before spring energy hits
• Let go of winter clutter while it’s still visible
• Reset clothing and sleep spaces before warm weather adds another layer

This isn’t about a full wardrobe overhaul. It’s about releasing what no longer supports how you live right now.

Where to Focus (Keep It Small)

You don’t need to do everything at once. Choose one area at a time:

• Closet (just your bedroom—not the whole house)
• Dresser drawers
• Nightstands
• Under-bed storage

If you only do one of these, that still counts.

What to Let Go Of

Clothing

• Pieces that don’t fit your current body or lifestyle
• “Maybe someday” outfits you’ve skipped over for years
• Duplicates you always ignore in favor of the same few favorites

A good rule of thumb:

If you wouldn’t buy it again today, it doesn’t need to stay.

Bedroom Extras

• Excess bedding you never reach for
• Broken or mismatched hangers
• Items stored “temporarily” that became permanent

Bedrooms in older homes tend to carry layers of life. That’s normal. This reset is about deciding which layers still belong.

What to Sell vs Donate

Sell If:

• It’s in good condition and still has value
• You’d be happy to get a little money back rather than store it
• It’s something someone else is actively searching for

Examples:

• Quality jackets, coats, or boots
• Maternity or baby clothes in good condition
• Name-brand denim, handbags, or outerwear

Selling doesn’t need to be a full-time job. One or two items is enough.

Donate If:

• It’s useful but not worth the effort to sell
• You’re keeping it out of guilt
• Someone else could benefit from it now

Examples:

• Everyday clothing
• Extra blankets or sheets
• Shoes that are wearable but not valuable

Letting items move on—through selling or donating—is part of finishing the reset. Bags sitting in the corner don’t count.

This month, I chose to sell all of the jewelry I no longer wear that is either gold or sterling silver to alloy market. The process was super easy and they came back with a very reasonable quote. I took that money and put it in my kid’s taxable brokerage – the jewelry will grow with my family much better in there then in a box collecting dust.

For clothing and accessories, the selling platforms I frequently use are:

• The Real Real – for high end, luxury goods
• Thread Up
• Poshmark
• Mercari
• Facebook Marketplace

Nightstands: The Overlooked Stress Zone

Clear everything off your nightstand. Then put back only what supports rest:

• A lamp
• A book you’re actually reading
• A glass of water
• One or two personal items that feel grounding

If it doesn’t belong to nighttime or rest, it doesn’t belong here.

Under-Bed Storage (Be Honest)

If you forgot what’s under your bed, that’s your sign.

Ask yourself:

• Would I go looking for this?
• Would I miss it if it were gone?
• Is this being stored—or avoided?

Keep only what has a clear purpose.

What This Reset Changes

A calmer bedroom doesn’t just look better—it feels different.

• Mornings are quieter
• Evenings feel less rushed
• Sleep improves in subtle ways

This isn’t about minimalism as an aesthetic. It’s about making room for rest in the homes we actually live in.

Coming Next Month

In March, we’ll move into bathrooms and linen storage—another space that quietly fills with things we meant to use “eventually.”

For now, start here. One drawer. One bag. One decision at a time.

Progress counts, even when it’s slow.

Since my oldest is now almost 6, I have effective ditched the bulky double stroller from my two under two days in favor of a super-lightweight and easy to fold umbrella stroller for my 4-year old. Now with a little one enroute, I’m back to the drawing board with my next stroller. In my research I put together some of the pros and cons of the most common double stroller options out there to hopefully help other mama’s to be!

This guide compares some of the most popular multi-kid strollers, including UPPAbaby, Mockingbird, Baby Jogger, Joovy, and Veer, focusing on what actually matters: weight, price, kid capacity, car seat compatibility, and real-world usability.

No hype. No pressure. Just the trade-offs.

UPPABaby Vista V2

What it’s known for
A luxury stroller with a very smooth ride and a polished look.

Pros

• Excellent suspension
• Converts from single to double
• High-quality materials
• Multiple infant car seat adapters available

Cons

• Heavy once fully configured
• Expensive before accessories
• Takes up a lot of trunk space
• Second seat weight limits can feel restrictive long-term

Best for: Daily walks, urban/suburban life, and families prioritizing ride quality over portability.

Pro Tip: The used market is very saturated with these, check your local marketplace listing and score one for less than half the price!

Mockingbird Single-to-Double

What it’s known for
A more affordable alternative to UPPAbaby with a similar aesthetic.

Pros

• Lower cost than luxury brands
• Converts from single to double
• Clean, minimalist look
• Compatible with many infant car seats

Cons

• Still fairly heavy
• Not ideal on uneven terrain
• Accessories add cost
• Bulk increases quickly when converted to double

Best for: Families who want flexibility and style without luxury pricing.

Baby Jogger City Select 2

What it’s known for
Practical configurations without luxury markup.

Pros

• Lighter than many comparable doubles
• High total child weight capacity
• Multiple seating configurations
• More manageable fold

Cons

• Less visually “premium”
• Accessories sold separately
• Steering is solid, not plush

Best for: Parents who value function, flexibility, and longevity.

Joovy Caboose Ultralight (Sit & Stand)

What it’s known for
A realistic option for kids with age gaps.

Pros

• Lighter than traditional double strollers
• Affordable
• Compact compared to full doubles
• Great for preschoolers who want independence

Cons

• Limited comfort for long outings
• Smaller storage basket
• Not ideal for two young toddlers full-time

Best for: Families with a baby + older toddler combo.

Veer Switch&Roll Stroller

What it’s known for
A rugged, modular stroller system built for families who want stroller structure with outdoor durability—without committing to a wagon.

The Switch&Roll uses the Switchback seat, which clicks into different frames (stroller, jogger, bike, etc.), making it more of a system than a single-use stroller.

Pros

• All-terrain wheels handle grass, gravel, and uneven paths well
• Switchback seat is removable and reusable across Veer systems
• Higher seat weight capacity than many traditional strollers
• Compatible with infant car seats (with adapters)
• Narrower and more maneuverable than a wagon

Cons

• Expensive once you build out the system
• Heavier than standard single strollers
• Multi-kid setup requires purchasing additional seats/frames
• Less “plug-and-play” than traditional doubles

Best for:
Active families who want a stroller that can adapt to outdoor life, multiple stages, and future configurations without going full wagon.

Comparison Chart

Model	Approx Price	Stroller Weight	Max Child Weight	Car Seat Compatible	Converts / Grows	Best For
UPPAbaby Vista V2	$$$$	~26.6 lbs	~50 lbs per seat*	Yes (adapters)	Single → Double	Smooth ride, daily walks
Mockingbird Single-to-Double	$$$	~26 lbs	~45 lbs per seat	Yes (adapters)	Single → Double	Budget flexibility
Baby Jogger City Select 2	$$$	~24 lbs	~45 lbs per seat	Yes (adapters)	Highly modular	Practical longevity
Joovy Caboose Ultralight	$$	~23 lbs	55 lbs bench / 45 lbs seat	Limited	Sit-and-stand	Larger age gaps
Veer Switch&Roll	$$$$	~32 lbs	~50 lbs per seat	Yes (adapters)	Modular system	Outdoor + adaptable

*limited to 40lbs in the lower position

The Little Home Energy Take

If your life involves tight parking, stairs, small storage, or lifting solo, weight matters more than brand.

If your life involves parks, trails, sports fields, or older kids who still need a ride, Veer can replace multiple strollers over time.

No stroller here is “the best.”
The best one is the one that:

• Fits your space
• Matches your kids’ ages
• Doesn’t make you dread leaving the house

That’s the real energy saver.

Personally, my family will be choosing the Veer Switch & Roll for the following reasons:

• Car Seat Flexibility (multiple adaptor options for many popular seats)
• Rumble Seat Max. Weight – my 4 year old has special needs and occasionally needs to be in a stroller, this will give me the flexibility to support him and he will not grow out of it right away.
• Terrain Handling – I’m always in rough terrain either going to sports games or chasing my 6 and 4 year olds around and I need the stability with a heavier child on the front.

*my goal is to offset the cost by looking for used or open box options.

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When I was pregnant with my first, I thought I needed everything. A full nursery. Drawers of tiny outfits in every size. Gadgets I didn’t even understand yet.

Now, here I am—mom of two, baby number three loading—and I can tell you with full confidence: you need far less than you think.

This isn’t about doing less for your baby. It’s about doing what actually matters—and giving yourself room to breathe.

Let Me Say This First (Because It Needs Saying)

Postpartum Essentials (For You, Not the Baby)

We spend so much time preparing for the baby that we forget something important: you’re recovering from birth. Whether that’s vaginal, C-section, or somewhere in between, postpartum care doesn’t need to be excessive—but it does need to be intentional.

You don’t need a bathroom full of products. You need a few things that actually make those early days easier.

For recovery & comfort:

• High-waisted, comfortable underwear (disposable or reusable—your preference)
• Large pads or postpartum briefs – I love these because they don’t feel like wearing a diaper and are c-section friendly. Link
• Peri bottle Link
• Ice packs or cooling pads (especially the first few days)
• Loose, breathable clothing
• A cozy robe or oversized button-down

For rest & nourishment:

• A large water bottle (hydration is everything postpartum)
• Easy snacks you can eat one-handed
• Prenatal Vitamins
• A basket for feeding and postpartum essentials you can move from room to room. Link
• Simple meals you can reheat without thinking

You don’t need to set up a “postpartum station” in every room or buy specialized versions of everything. One basket with the basics near where you’ll spend most of your time is more than enough.

A Gentle Reminder

Postpartum is not the time to push, prove, or bounce back. It’s a season of healing, bonding, and slowing down—whether it lasts weeks or months. Minimalism here isn’t about doing less for yourself. It’s about doing what actually supports you.

You can always add later. Order later. Adjust later.

Right now, rest is productive.

Below is a printable list of everything recommended above, I hope this helps!